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with Sean Sawyer, MS

Session: #037 | Emotional Intelligence Part 3: Leveraging Anger

July 28, 2024

Key Points:

  • 1. Anger is a typical response in trading, often linked to impulsive behavior.
  • 2. Distinguishing the emotion of anger from the subsequent actions is crucial.
  • 3. Anger can be managed and leveraged to improve focus and trading performance.

Summary:

In this session, Sean continues the Emotional Intelligence series, focusing on understanding and managing anger. The discussion dives into how anger manifests in trading and everyday life, highlighting its potential for destruction and utility. Participants share personal experiences with anger, emphasizing the importance of distinguishing between the emotion itself and the behaviors it triggers. Sean offers insights on how to leverage anger constructively and provides techniques to prevent it from undermining trading decisions.

One participant shared, “I anger myself for making impulsive entry oversized to light stop,” illustrating how anger often leads to impulsive actions that can harm trading performance. Sean emphasized that the key is not to eliminate anger but to understand and manage it effectively. He explained that anger is an emotion, not a behavior and that recognizing this distinction is vital for controlling the following impulses. The session also explored the evolutionary role of anger in focusing attention on perceived threats, which can be advantageous in trading if appropriately managed. Sean shared his experience of how mild anger helps him concentrate and trade better by creating a state of heightened alertness and motivation.

“For me, it’s focus. Anger helps me focus quite a bit, and I trade very well when I’m just slightly angry.”

– Sean Sawyer

C.L.E.A.R. Mindset Connections:

Connect: Sean highlighted the importance of mindfulness in recognizing and managing anger, suggesting that traders practice mindfulness to increase their self-awareness and ability to stay present.

Loosen: By using techniques like cognitive defusion; traders can separate themselves from their anger, seeing it as a transient emotion rather than letting it dictate their actions.

Embody your core values and align them with your actions to foster authenticity and purpose. – Understanding what triggers anger and how it aligns with personal values helps traders maintain integrity and purpose in their trading decisions.

Accept: Accepting anger as a natural emotion without judgment allows traders to manage it more effectively, reducing its negative impact on their decisions.

Respond: By leveraging anger’s heightened focus, traders can channel this energy into making more informed and strategic trading decisions.

Actionable Strategies:

  • Practice mindfulness and cognitive defusion techniques to manage anger.
  • Develop a solid trading plan to reduce impulsive decisions.
  • Reflect on personal values and how they influence trading behaviors.
  • Use anger constructively to enhance focus and alertness.
  • Regularly review and adjust trading strategies based on emotional awareness.

Act Accordingly:

Mastering anger involves recognizing it as a natural and potentially helpful emotion. By practicing mindfulness, separating emotion from action, and aligning behaviors with core values, traders can transform anger from a destructive force into a powerful tool for success.

Sean Sawyer, MS

Psychotherapist | Trader

Sean Sawyer has been a psychotherapist since 2003 and a full-time trader since 2018. Sean helps traders prevent tilt & repeat the same mistakes by rewiring the brain patterns that fail them under pressure.