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with Sean Sawyer, MS

Session: #023 | Detoxing from Hopium Pt. 2

May 12, 2024

Key Points:

  1. The session explores the dangerous allure of Hopium and emphasizes the benefits of non-hope as a balanced approach to trading.
  2. Focusing on the process, rather than outcomes, is crucial to avoiding Hopium and maintaining emotional balance.
  3. Achieving peace and happiness without being attached to specific trading outcomes can transform traders’ management of their expectations and risks.

Summary:

In this session, Sean builds on last week’s discussion, examining how Hopium—a blend of hope and delusion—can derail a trader’s performance and emotional stability. He contrasts this with the Buddhist concept of non-hope or aimlessness, drawing on teachings from Thich Nhat Hanh to illustrate how detachment from outcomes can lead to a more balanced and mindful approach to trading.

Sean recounts his early career experiences, working with individuals battling hopelessness, and ties these into the challenges traders face with Hopium. While hope can inspire action, it often leads to clinging to outcomes and unrealistic expectations in the trading world, which can be as destructive as hopelessness. The session explores how mindfulness and staying grounded in the present can help traders navigate these emotional pitfalls.

The group also discusses the dangers of Hopium in practical trading scenarios, such as holding onto losing trades or over-leveraging in the hope of a big win. Sean emphasizes the importance of focusing on the process, not the outcome, to avoid these traps. “Hope can make you go broke,” Sean warns, highlighting how crucial it is to develop a non-attached mindset, where small losses are accepted as part of the trading process.

C.L.E.A.R. Mindset Connections:

Connect to the present moment and enhance your self-awareness with practical techniques.

  • Practicing mindfulness can ground you in the present, helping to avoid the traps of Hopium by enhancing your awareness of when you’re becoming overly attached to outcomes.

Loosen your attachment to thoughts and emotions, and cultivate mental clarity and resilience.

  • Embracing non-hope and accepting small losses can help loosen emotional attachments, promote mental clarity, and reduce the impact of Hopium.

Embody your core values and align them with your actions to foster authenticity and purpose.

  • Prioritize process over outcome in your trading, ensuring your actions are consistent with your values. This can help you stay true to your trading principles without getting caught up in Hopium.

Accept all the present moment offers, whether wanted or not, and find peace and strength.

  • Recognizing and accepting small red days as part of the trading journey can prevent the urge to chase losses and promote a healthier, more peaceful trading approach.

Respond with decisive, informed action, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.

  • Use non-hope to cut losses quickly and decisively, turning potential Hopium-fueled mistakes into opportunities to reinforce disciplined trading habits.

Actionable Strategies:

  • Practice mindfulness daily to stay grounded and aware of when Hopium might influence your decisions.
  • Develop a routine to assess your emotional state before and during trading, adjusting your actions if Hopium starts to creep in.
  • Set realistic trading goals focusing on the process rather than the outcome. This will help you manage expectations and avoid the pitfalls of Hopium.
  • Review and reflect on your trades regularly, focusing on your adherence to process rather than just profit and loss.

Act Accordingly:

Detoxing from Hopium isn’t just about avoiding risky trades; it’s about cultivating a mindset where you prioritize the process and remain detached from outcomes. By embracing non-hope and practicing mindfulness, you can transform your trading approach into one that is disciplined and resilient, ultimately leading to more consistent and sustainable success.

Sean Sawyer, MS

Psychotherapist | Trader

Sean Sawyer has been a psychotherapist since 2003 and a full-time trader since 2018. Sean helps traders prevent tilt & repeat the same mistakes by rewiring the brain patterns that fail them under pressure.